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Following a survey which found that 6 out of 10 women and 4 out of 10 men felt sexually harassed in the workplace, Billy Shears interviews a couple of workers, female and male to hear their thoughts on the subject.

Catherine, an architect from Bristol states, ‘Sexual harassment is rife. When I have a business suit and high heals on, it is always a dreadful experience when I have to walk past a building site with work men there. I never know what will happen. The builders almost always ogle and whistle at me, the chauvinist pigs, treating me like an object. However if they don’t whistle then they must be gay, because in my business suit I look amazing’.

I ask Catherine if she can explain the situation regarding sexual harassment in the office, is it ever a vague issue with lots of subjectivity that can cause confusion? ‘No, it is simple to understand. Unattractive less powerful men often harass me in the office, when I act flirtatiously and wear a low cut blouse designed to catch the eye of an attractive powerful man. My amazing boss only married that witch of a wife because he was too young at the time to know what he really wants. He has asked me to stop flirting with him because it is inappropriate and he feels uncomfortable, but I know that he is only saying that because he is a gentleman, and you know that coldness turns me on more. I’m going to play the long game with him, wait until the office party, after a few glasses of champagne, he won’t stand a chance.

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When it comes to what is and is not sexual harassment, a half glance is fine from the right man at the right time in the workplace, a stare is not, especially from the wrong man. Like Kevin the chubby and spotty admin assistant in the office, he often talks to my cleavage not my face, its degrading. Women don’t clearly show to men who are the right ones, who are the wrong ones, it is much more subtle than that, women are complex. To avoid acting in a sexually harassing way men have to keep up with these complexities. I’m certainly not going to stop wearing low cut blouses or stop flirting, that would infringe upon my human rights as an empowered woman. I’m a professional architect and do my job well but I’m also a sexual being, if men can’t handle that, that is not my problem, its theirs. There is no excuse for sexual harassment, what is and is not sexual harassment is so clear cut, isn’t it?’.

Stan, an office accountant in his late 20s says he is so confused by it all that his office flirts are restricted to an Anime girl called Ne-ne that he chats with online during lunch time. He says, ‘Many of my work colleagues, both male and female are single and fed up, resorting to online dating where harassment is rife. The only other opportunity they have to meet and get to know the opposite sex is in the office where they spend most of their time. But everyone is confused now about what are the acceptable rules for courtship in the workplace. Ne-ne thanks me politely when I compliment her on the way she dresses, so I know where I stand with her. I’m afraid to compliment the lovely Janet who sits in the cubicle next to me.

Sadly because Ne-ne isn’t real, we can’t cuddle up on the sofa together with a bottle of wine on a Friday night. Actually she says she drinks sake not wine. Cross-cultural and cross-dimensional 3D/2D relationships can be challenging’.

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3 thoughts on “Builders either chauvinist pigs or gay says attractive woman

  1. That reminds me of the Saturday Night Live skit which was a Sexual Harrassment PSA. The workplace rules to follow:

    – Be handsome
    – Be attractive
    – Don’t be unattractive

    I think we all could learn from these simple guidelines in the workplace.

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  2. Catherine sounds like a right silly cunt. Architect eh? Pity she can’t design a plan of action for her life that stops her from being a cunt.

    “However if they don’t whistle then they must be gay, because in my business suit I look amazing.”

    More than likely in her business suit, Catherine looks like a cunt and more than likely more often than not they don’t whistle and just think to themsleves…”pfffft..what a cunt…”…

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